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Reference#1..."While having no seminary degree, Dale thinks at a deeper level than most ministry people I have met. His overall understanding of the Bible, theology and church history consistently impresses me."

Dr. John A. Bash

Reference#2... "[Dale] is an exceptional thinker and is consistently open to new an innovative ways of doing ministry." 

Jim Lee, Chaplain
Oaks Christian School

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Reference#3..."Dale is a very gifted, organized, gracious and creative man."

Michael Baggett, Singles Pastor
Bayside Church

Reference#4..."wouldn't hesitate to recommend Dale for a role on a church team where his gifts and faithfulness to the responsibilities entrusted to him could be put to good use".

Bob Shank, President
Priority Living

Reference #5..."Though many came to the ministry wounded, most experienced a rekindling of their faith and gained a clearer vision for their lives. I believe it was Dale’s interpersonal skills and sense of humor that greatly encouraged the morale of his volunteer staff and he was used to infuse God's joy into their enthusiastic service."

Peggy Bolcoa, Ph.D. MFT
Bristol Cove Counseling

Reference#6..."His ministry gifts exemplify that rare balance between tasks and people. He has a genuine, caring spirit for those in the church body as well as those who do not yet know God."

Steve Young, Pastor
Renaissance Church

Reference#7..."Dale is a loving and compassionate husband to his wife Bonnie. They are well matched and are able to work together in ministry well. They have provided us with a shining example..."

Rev. David Tucker, Pastoral Counselor
Spirit of Hope Church

Reference#8..."Dale’s leadership and the mentoring that he has obviously received from John Bash impressed me. South Coast Singles is a solid group with a good foundation."

Rob Brosius, Former Elder
South Coast Community Church 

Reference#9..."He has the capacity to see potential in people that they may not be capable of seeing or believing themselves. I know this because I was one of those people."

Laurie Woodward,
Former Colleague

Reference#10..."His passion for those of fragile faith, for single adults, and for deeply rooted friendships are evident to all he meets."

Kathy Talafous,
Volunteer Leader

Reference#11..."In my experience working with Dale Gustavson on the South Coast Single’s leadership team and as a member of the singles group, I have noticed these qualities in Dale; Caring for others, Encourage and motivate others to serve, Let his faith in Christ be known, Supportive of the pastors and the main church, Supportive of new believers and seekers, Fun, Excellent team-building skills, Inclusive, Heart for singles people and a desire to minister to them, Willingness to openly share his testimony and life experiences."

Joanne Allen, Ministry Leader

Reference#12..."While director of our single’s group, attendance continued to rise due to his preparation, his presentations, his character, his sensitivity to single’s issues and his true love and concern for us."

Jeane D. Ford, Volunteer Leader

Reference#13..."I was encouraged by Dale to step out of my safe place and stretch my abilities in order to serve the group."

John Hotzfeld, Volunteer Leader


 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 









 

 









 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Reference#1Dale Gustavson came to  work for me in the early 90’s, at my request, after seeing him interact in my 35-years+ single’s group. At the time I was serving as the second teaching pastor at a church of 3,500 in Irvine, CA. While this particular group was very successful numerically, it had lost focus and was developing a reputation for the dysfunction with it. Many more experienced “Single’s Leaders” informed me that this was the nature of middle-aged single’s groups.

Dale became my partner and confidant in the process of turning this group around. In a very short period of time, he became the primary contact for the group as he nurtured them through changes, which could have easily led to a decline in attendance. Instead the group grew and developed a strong sense of healthy pride, providing its own leadership in the process.

Dale is thorough, sometimes to an obsessive degree (which was a nice match for me, since I am totally “big picture”). His preparation for everything from talks to meetings consistently shows insight and balance. While having no seminary degree, Dale thinks at a deeper level than most ministry people I have met. His overall understanding of the Bible, theology and church history consistently impresses me.

While confident, Dale can also be extremely teachable. His desire to spend the best hours of his day doing ministry is admirable. It is hard for me to imagine a church staff that wouldn’t benefit from Dale being part of the team.

A few years later Dale was part of a church plant in Irvine. His broad range of gifts became evident as he plugged himself into whatever area was needed in the time he had to give. He can preach, teach, lead groups, coordinate events and strategize with the best.

I am not objective about Dale. He has become a fond friend. It is easy to recommend him. Feel free to call me if you have any questions.

Blessings!

Dr. John A. Bash


Reference#2: If I were starting a new church today from scratch, one of the first phone calls I would make would be to Dale Gustavson. I would do whatever I could to get him on staff. Dale and I go back several years as we ministered together on the staff of South Coast Community Church. Currently, I serve on the pastoral staff and am also a commercial airline pilot.

I recommend Dale wholeheartedly as a staff person for several reasons. First of all, Dale has a biblical and focused philosophy of ministry. Ultimately, he is concerned about making disciples of Jesus and seeing lives changed. He is an exceptional thinker and is consistently open to new an innovative ways of doing ministry. It was a delight to work with someone who shared the same enthusiasm and desire to see people come to know Christ and then to be effectively discipled in their faith. Secondly, both Dale and Bonnie have a faith that is warm and contagious. I guess it’s easiest to describe them as people magnets. It makes sense to me; they treat people with respect, love, and grace. They understand their own need for Christ and it shows in how they relate to others. Thirdly, Dale brings to the table a wide variety of work experiences that enable him to relate to a wide spectrum of people. He is an extremely gifted individual, but one who truly understands the source of his gifts. He is a humble and generous man.

If you find an opportunity to bring on one more staff person, by all means, extend an invitation to Dale. God’s kingdom, your church, and the Gustavsons would all benefit greatly! Please feel free to call me if I can be of further assistance.

Sincerely,
Jim Lee, Chaplain
Oaks Christian School


Reference#3I had the privilege of serving with Dale from 1994 through 1997 and then again through most of 1998. I truly miss working with him. He was always encouraging, fun, and consistently good counsel.

As a ministry leader, Dale has always been well liked and respected by everybody he ministered to and with. He has a very good understanding of ministry and is of outstanding character. He understands the importance of having gifted leadership and is able to identify and empower the giftedness of others. In fact, he has taught the Network materials authored by Bruce Bugbee and Don Cousins in several churches including Parkcrest. Dale helped me implement the ministry teams concept that I began shortly after arriving here at Parkcrest.

Dale is a very gifted, organized, gracious and creative man. I would love to work with him again. I know that he would make a great staff member both in terms of fulfilling the duties of his position and as wonderful support and encouragement to existing staff members.

Blessings,

Michael Baggett, Singles Pastor
Bayside Church

NOTE:  Dale also worked "for" Michael at Parkcrest Christian Church in Long Beach.

Reference#4: In church ministries, some leadership is imported from elsewhere in the Kingdom - usually to be on the paid staff - and some leadership emerges from within - usually from among the volunteers. Over time, leadership distinguishes itself through service.

While at South Coast Community Church, often the most impressive leadership was from those volunteers who emerged. One of those leaders who was proven on the front-line was Dale Gustavson.

I met Dale, interacted with him, and watched him assume various responsibilities among the high-demand and high-expectation crowd we had in the 35-year-old+ singles group. Eventually he was hired as a ministry intern and became the part time Director of South Coast Singles . Dale was a steady and mature hand on the rudder as he steered the ship under the direction of our designated pastor, John Bash.

I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Dale for a role on a church team where his gifts and faithfulness to the responsibilities entrusted to him could be put to good use.

Blessings,

Bob Shank, President
Priority Living

Reference#5: On behalf of the South Coast Center (for counseling and personal growth) which was located on the campus of South Coast Community Church in Irvine, California, this is to acknowledge the outstanding service of Dale Gustavson as Director of South Coast Singles.

Dale responded to a request for help at a time when South Coast Singles was experiencing a critical leadership vacuum among its volunteers. Singles pastor John Bash had his eyes open for someone to fill that void in a part-time staff capacity. He found Dale. Dale’s acceptance of a position as John's ministry intern was literally a God-send.

With John's guidance, Dale was swiftly able to reestablish South Coast Singles' credibility and get it growing again both in numbers and in substance. Working behind the scenes at first, his excellent organizational skills enabled him to mentor and develop strong volunteer leadership community which in turn enabled the ministry to touch so many more lives than it otherwise could have. Throughout his entire tenure, Dale demonstrated the rare ability to apply his head, heart, faith and tenacity to the benefit of others. By the end of his years at South Coast, Dale had moved from behind the scenes into a visible role as teacher and respected leader.

As the Director of the Center referenced above, I interfaced with Dale frequently and collaborated with him on many activities. These included Divorce Recovery Seminars, Sunday morning discussion panels, and other labor-intensive endeavors that provided personal and spiritual growth opportunities for hundreds of singles. Though many came to the ministry wounded, most experienced a rekindling of their faith and gained a clearer vision for their lives. I believe it was Dale’s interpersonal skills and sense of humor that greatly encouraged the morale of his volunteer staff and he was used to infuse God's joy into their enthusiastic service.

Incidentally, Dale had a full time job all during his ministry years because the church could only compensate him minimally. Although South Coast singles was growing rapidly, church attendance overall was shrinking rapidly. Ultimately South Coast merged with Mariners Church in order to survive financially. The merged church, reluctantly accepted Dale’s resignation when he decided to move and participate in a church plant. I, however, still attend Mariners, the church where we served together. Almost every Sunday I’m there, I peek in at the singles worship through a window and see the continued joyful and faithful volunteers whom Dale helped grow and develop, continuing to serve the Lord. Dale is truly a disciple.

Sincerely, Peggy Bolcoa, Ph.D. MFT
Bristol Cove Counseling

Reference#6: This is to affirm my support for the ministry of Dale Gustavson. Dale has been a friend and ministry partner for six years. His ministry gifts exemplify that rare balance between tasks and people. He has a genuine, caring spirit for those in the church body as well as those who do not yet know God. Yet he's also a "whatever it takes" kind of guy who gets things done. What I appreciate most about Dale's approach to ministry is his willingness to ask the "why" and "what if" questions that so often are avoided by those in ministry. I'm proud to call Dale my friend, and am grateful for the opportunity to serve with him at two churches.

In Christ,
Steve Young
Renaissance Church

Reference#7: My wife and I have had a long and wonderful relationship with Dale. He is an outstanding individual. His strong commitment to God is an example to us all. Dale has been a role model and encouragement to me and my family on many occasions. His insight has been a guide to us and he has availed himself personally and professionally far beyond the call of duty. I appreciate his ability to speak truth without bringing shame. There have been many times when his words, while not exactly what I wanted to hear, have challenged me and brought me to seek God. He is candid as well as gracious.

In ministry Dale is undaunted and affable. He has a strong sense of his position in the Kingdom and is able to seek the well being of others while empowering them to grow. I see the hand of God on Dale and am glad to be a part of his life. As you consider him for a position in your ministry, be aware that he brings a light and love with him that are a benefit to everyone he comes in contact with.

Dale is a loving and compassionate husband to his wife Bonnie. They are well matched and are able to work together in ministry well. They have provided us with a shining example to strive for in our own relationship.

If you have any further questions please do not hesitate to contact me.

Rev. David Tucker, Pastoral Counselor
Spirit of Hope Church
Irvine, California

Reference#8: This is a report on the Single’s Ministry from the perspective of a man married for 26 years. Let me tell you what I saw and heard during my two visits.

The two times that I visited unfortunately, John Bash was not there (something about golf tournaments or other more pressing issues----kidding John) and the group was directed by Dale Gustavson, who did a great job. At one particular meeting the discussion centered around “Surviving in the Real World.” Dale was very well prepared and had obviously spent a great deal of time thinking and planning for the group discussions. His slides were excellent and he did an excellent job of keeping the discussions going. There were questions for discussion at each table and it appeared that everyone was very involved. The sound effects were a little on the strange side, but if I had been through what I’m sure many of theses people have they need something to make them smile and laugh a little.

One of my concerns was that these group discussions would be more consumed by people simply using the meeting as a place to check out the opposite sex. I’m sure that this is the purpose of some of the attendees, but honestly I observed a group of people who were there to learn about and listen to others, bring some joy and happiness into their lives, and to give thanks to our Lord for those things that we have been given. There are definitely people there who have been through their share of agony and afterwards one of the individuals and I spent some time talking about problems and issues that he was dealing with. I gave my perspective and offered any help I could be in the future. Some of these people, especially the women, need to know that there are people (men) who are genuine and are looking for more than just the obvious. This is a good place to meet those types of people. But they must be discerning and remember that even in church and a Christian environment, there are those who would take advantage.

In summary, Dale’s leadership and the mentoring that he has obviously received from John Bash impressed me. South Coast Singles is a solid group with a good foundation and I would have recommended to some of the single guys in the Thursday morning men’s group that they stop in and give it a chance. God is working in this ministry just as He is throughout all of our individual groups and at South Coast Community Church.

Great job John and Dale!

Rob Brosius, Former Elder
South Coast Community Church

Reference#9: I have known Dale Gustavson for ten years. In that time, I have worked with and for him, watched him interact with others, learned from him and become a friend. I first met Dale in the Singles ministry at South Coast Community Church, where we served together in leadership. We were both on staff as well. Dale is a remarkable human being. He has the capacity to see potential in people that they may not be capable of seeing or believing themselves. I know this because I was one of those people. He has a desire to “plug” people into positions where they can minister to others using their gifts and experiences. He is a very detailed individual. This is manifested whenever he teaches or gives a demonstration. Dale is also a wonderful mediator and counselor. His compassion, concern and listening and thought provoking techniques have served many people.

I have been wonderfully blessed by knowing him.

Laurie Woodward, Former Colleague

P.S. And he’s a really good bowling coach, too!

Reference#10: I served with Dale Gustavson as a member of the South Coast Singles leadership team for several years. I wouldn't hesitate to serve under his leadership again. For those with whom Dale comes into contact, he demonstrates the relevance of the Christian faith by being in touch with the needs of the congregation and community.

His personality makes him a very approachable, interactive, sensitive and caring kind of person. These attitudes promote a sense of community to those around him and provide opportunities for those who serve under his leadership to foster meaningful relationships with others. His passion for those of fragile faith, for single adults, and for deeply rooted friendships are evident to all he meets. Dale exhibits excellent communication and listening skills focusing on each person and his/her specific need. He leverages all the above along with facilitation skills, creative teaching and music to disciple both people at the top of their games and the disenfranchised.

Sincerely,

Kathy Talafous, Volunteer Leader

Reference#11: I truly enjoyed working with Dale in the singles group. He had such a caring for the people in the group. I hope he finds his spot and is able to encourage others like he encouraged me.

In my experience working with Dale Gustavson on the South Coast Single’s leadership team and as a member of the singles group, I have noticed these qualities in Dale; Caring for others, Encourage and motivate others to serve, Let his faith in Christ be known, Supportive of the pastors and the main church, Supportive of new believers and seekers, Fun, Excellent team-building skills, Inclusive, Heart for singles people and a desire to minister to them, Willingness to openly share his testimony and life experiences.

Please feel free to contact me personally for additional information.

Yours truly,

Joanne Allen

Reference#12: I have known Dale Gustavson for several years: first as an acquaintance in a large church single’s group, next as his role as Director of the weekly single’s group and then as a good friend. My admiration and respect for Dale continues to grow the longer I know him.

He has a true heart for people. His sense of compassion and empathy toward others allow him to be a strong and influential force on all lives that he touches. He’s gentle, and yet strong and committed in what he believes. He listens well and is always there for me and others anytime we need him. I value his counsel and his wisdom. His strong belief in our Lord guides his decisions and he regularly studies in order to grow I his understanding.

Another of his strengths is in supporting and encouraging Small Groups. His experience in overseeing the Small Group program at a very large local church influenced many to participate. He understands the value of being able to build relationships within the small group setting.

His experience as a single has also allowed him to have a special heart for single people. While director of our single’s group, attendance continued to rise due to his preparation, his presentations, his character, his sensitivity to single’s issues and his true love and concern for us.

Dale is a man of many gifts…in ministry, encouraging and guiding small groups and being a director of a large single’s group to name just a few. He’s a true Christian man who lives what he teaches.

I am privileged to know Dale and to recommend him for any number of possibilities. Whatever he does, it is always done with utmost involvement, time and care.

If you have any questions, please call me at (949) 786-9121.

Very sincerely,

Jeane D. Ford, Volunteer Leader

Reference#13: "During the early nineties, I had the good fortune of working with and becoming friends with Dale Gustavson. During that period, we were both involved in the Single’s Ministry at a large church in Orange County. Dale and the Single’s Pastor worked together to create a place where mid-life singles could come in different stages of their recovery from broken marriages or the loss of a spouse in death.

Dale was put in charge of creating a team of singles to provide fellowship and activities to help fulfill their lives. He is a great leader and has the abilities to serve in different areas needed to accomplish the team’s necessities to build a healthy singles group.

I was encouraged by Dale to step out of my safe place and stretch my abilities in order to serve the group. Dale is also a man I would go to for counsel and support. He knows how to listen and give healthy advice. Although his title was Director of South Coast Singles, I viewed Dale as my pastor.

Dale is also very organized and prepares for any presentation he has in mind. I would recommend him to any position that needs a person who has the ability to encourage and support his teammates.

John Hotzfeld, Volunteer Leader







 
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